Well... I just wanted to say I was grateful for the comments on my last post. I'm going to put it on the side burner until I get a little perspective... or distance, from this strange encounter I have had. In other news... it was vocation awareness week this week and I tried to make my dear students very, very aware. I know, I always say it, but, they are the best kids in the whole world.
Many of them, as their hormones rage in middle school, say that they would not want to be a priest, sister, brother, consecrated virgin... I love their honesty and questions and I want them to feel like they can talk to me about anything in their hearts and minds. It is interesting to me that the sixth grade boys tell me everything, the eighth grade girls tell me everything and seventh grade, boys and girls, can't keep a secret to save their lives. It makes them all the more endearing to my heart!
Anyway, the other day, one of the girls in eighth grade was giving me the update on the two boys who are both attempting to win her affections these days. She is just a beautiful girl who has had a very difficult family life but has matured with the help of God's grace. I listened as I always do and gave her my advice... (one of the boys seems much nicer than the other!). Her homeroom teacher came to me at the end of the day and told me that she said that I was the "perfect nun." HA! Her reasoning was that I "was holy, but still understood the business..." It made me really happy to hear that - even though I'm not holy... she is right that I understand "the business." It isn't that long that I have been out of the dating scene and I think I do "get it."
After that, one of my boys came to talk to me about something I told him the other day. He was goofing off with one of the other boys. They really are good kids but it certainly wasn't the most respectful conversation as far as women go. I said to him, "If I were (the girl he liked), my feelings would be hurt right now." He said to me, "Sister, you were right. I talked to 'Mary' last night and she was upset about what I said. I said I was sorry and it's alright now." I won't lie... I definitely was happy to hear I was right! haha. But I was happier that he learned something about how much it matters how he acts. He is really a leader among his peers and if he knows how to behave, he can influence many of them to behave like young Catholic men.
No matter what my girls or boys choose to do with their lives, although I hope and pray that they follow God's will for them, I will be proud of them for their decisions. I know that they are growing into mature and responsible young men and women. I thank God so much for the opportunity to walk with them. It is such a gift to me to be able to see His grace operating in their lives. It fills my heart with gratitude and love as I watch them grow into God's own special gift to the world.